Thursday, December 8, 2016

Life Lesson # 1: When people say mean, damaging and hurtful things which are said out of ignorance

One of the biggest detriments of life is negativity, when your loved ones say negative things to you. But know this, when people say mean, damaging, negative, hurtful things which are said out of ignorance. Forgive them. Everyone acts out of their own pain.

If your grandma, mum, dad, sibling or best friend says anything mean and damaging to you, know this; They are only saying all those things to you out of frustration and ignorance.

Three specific scenarios where anyone can use your weakness against you can be when someone says to you:
  • Your art is shit and you will never be successful in your life.
  • You are a Loser, that's why every man/person leaves you/that's why everything bad happens to you always because you don't deserve it.
  • "So you're trynna be a tomboy eh? That's why you are in between, not a boy nor a girl.
Now a lot of you out there might recognize these three above mentioned scenarios as hatred  towards you and a cause for just bringing you down. Here's a thing, people say mean things as a reflection of themselves. Say, someone calls you a "loser", it don't mean you are a "loser". But it means they see themselves as a big fat "loser".

Negative words can influence your exterior but not your inside. Don't matter who says what to you. What matters the most is how you react to such negativity. Because at the end of the day, you only have control over yourself and your actions.

So, question comes how to deal with such circumstances?. The best remedy: Walk away, do not listen. Pretend you did not even heard them. Sometimes ignorance is bliss and in this case it is wise to become naive. Anything which is negative and is not serving you in a positive way or helping you to grow. Cut them out of your life instantly.

One of the reasons that why I keep negative energy 10 feet away from my space is that, I can not afford someone to fill their negative energy in my present space which will in return effect my future.

"Be thankful for every thorn, 
People might throw at you,
It is a sign,
That you will soon be showered 
with blessings of roses"
  
Watch my full Life Lesson as I explain to you in detail this amazing empowering life lesson with some useful quotes right here.

-Seresha


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Monday, December 5, 2016

Harry's Birththday Party and Black Friday!

 
The very notion of why am not able to blog these days I have cracked; I don't share my everyday experiences with you but pick events that have already happened and write about them. The thoughts and my enthusiasm does not remain present-day which prevails my passion. I really want to share my every day diary with you all and what I have been up to. I am launching *New* art diary videos soon starting from this week Friday. Where I will share and give you peeks of my new products with their inspiration.Yesterday, I filmed the very first art diary video, I can't wait for you to see. You can subscribe to my you tube channel here in case you don't miss out on my updates.

Positive Affirmations:

One of the biggest virtues I have learned from yesterday is this: Your negative words can have great impact on future. Be very careful in what kind of energy you allow into your space because it eventually comes back to you. That's why I keep negative people/energy 10 feet away from my space. Another very useful technique which I learned recently to do is: Every time I get pissed off or angry when something bad happens, I don't Cuss or abuse, but i have replaced the abusive word with positive affirmation i.e I am millionaire!. I realized very soon that using the "F" word will have equal impact on my future as much as any positive word. So why not replace bad negative words with positive affirmations that could help you too?. Think about it, it can really change your life.

Black Friday Haul With Gul:

Back in march 2016, I met Guliafshan Tariq (-The girl who broke Pakistan Record) for first time ever at Tedx (I'll share my story some day of how I got selected for tedx islamabad), I took her interview too that you can see right here. Then in August Gul was launching her clothing brand Rukhsaar, she invited me to be model for her clothes. Was it luck or by fate, we became very good friends after that. We went to black Friday haul together recently and had so much fun.



*Us having pizza at Pizza Hut*

Here is what I purchased:
  • Junk Food (Golden eclair pack for my bestfriend sophia)
  • 3 new diaries
  • Ear tops ( I bought one pair of them for Gul)
  • Cool emoji Key chain
*I don't ever spend a penny on clothes/shoes, I recycle fashion and mostly shop from vintage stores very rarely. Most of my money is spend on junk food, accessories and stationery. I'm changing the junk food spending though, I really would want to start eating healthy.

Harry's Birthday Party:

I celebrated my very good friend Harry Events & PR's birthday party on last black Friday. Yesterday, I spend whole day editing the Vlog.

You can watch the full vlog here:


On Other Note, K-Pop Dance Classes:

My best friend Sophia Mujahid has launched recently K-pop inspired dance classes organized by;
Elite Fitness Dojo , check out her dance class first video here. I'm just so proud of her, she has worked so very hard for this.

Fatima Jinnah Women University Expo:

Me & my buddy Gul will be going to an Expo being organized by FJWU on 8th December, timing 10 am - 4pm.  It is a great opportunity to connect with 60+ handmade stalls, if you chics want to come join us. Do drop by, I'll be there.

Thanks for checking my diary fellas, I had fun sharing all this. See you tomorrow.

-Seresha

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